2. Pretending To Be Happy When Receiving Cards Without Cash Inside
As you get older, people often expect cash instead of actual gifts for birthdays or holidays. You might feel a rush of excitement as you open a card, hoping to find some money tucked inside. But when you open it and find it empty, you still have to act grateful. It’s a disappointing feeling, but you don’t want to come across as rude or ungrateful. You smile and say thank you, even though you feel a mix of appreciation and frustration. This situation can be particularly challenging when you know the cash could have been more useful—especially if you’re trying to save or invest in something important. What do people expect you to do with a card? Sure, it’s thoughtful and sentimental, but after reading it, what’s next? You can’t help but wonder why some people still prefer cards over cash. This internal conflict makes the experience bittersweet, forcing you to weigh the value of emotional gifts against practical ones and navigate social expectations without feeling let down.
